Becoming Coco

This life philosophy just came to me. I hope it helps someone or at least creates a meaningful discussion.  I think in life it is the small choices that determine who you are. Whether you do wonderful things for the world or terrible is not determined primarily in one big action you take, but the little steps. Great people are not born in a day and neither are Monsters.  It’s those little daily choices you made to say something nice or say something mean, to tell the truth or a white lie, to control your urge for the easy route and do that slightly harder thing instead, that create your path.  These little choices will take you to the place where you can do things you thought were impossible for you. Whether those be to change the world for the better or destroy it, is up to your past decisions.  For example someone who opens a non-profit organization giving free help to patients of cancer is doing great things with seemingly one choice, but it...

written May 16, 2018 This is a post for anyone who is struggling with self-hatred, shame , guilt or thinks they don’t deserve their dreams. I am going to tell you how:  1) Yes you do deserve it all  2) Yes even you who thinks there is something wrong with you   3) It’s already yours and how you can just receive it with a simple mindset shift And 4) Christians fear this message most of all, yet more than any should receive it because they have been given the truth their whole lives  It’s like we all have been living in a beautiful castle with blindfolds on, wishing for our dreams to come true, but too afraid to take off the blindfold for fear we will wake up in a shack.  Daaaaaamn  Here’s what I realized.  I DO deserve everything and I can trust my heart.  These two things are the opposite of what most churches preach and so as a Christian I had and still have a hard time accepting these truths. In reality EVER...